ASK THE DATING COACH: How to Confidently Approach Women. Plus: Emoji Tips & (Non-Sketchy!) Pickup Lines

My clients often ask me “Why Am I So Afraid to Approach Women?” Blame your caveman brain. Here’s how to become fearless when you want to meet a gorgeous girl. “Connell, I have a successful business, and I’m confident in most areas. Why am I petrified to approach a pretty girl?”~ Ken, Cleveland OH I’ve…

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Top 5 Questions for an NYC Dating Coach

What a dating expert can do for a man’s confidence and results Hey, happy New Year! Connell here with Dating Transformation, helping you attract amazing women as your most authentic, confident self. As a dating coach with five years of experience, I’ve seen a lot of patterns. I get a lot of the same questions…

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Q&A with a Dating Coach, Part 2

From “how to pick up girls” to how to be a “bad boy,” here’s part 2 of a conversation with NYC dating coach Connell Barrett on attracting amazing women by being authentic Here’s part 2 of an interview I did with a British writer named Will Palmer. As an NYC dating coach, I have a…

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Q&A with a Dating Coach, Part 1

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One of NYC’s top dating coaches with expert answers and advice. From “how to pick up girls” to escaping the friend zone, a conversation with NYC dating coach Connell Barrett on how to attract amazing women—by being authentic Here’s part 1 of an interview I did with a British writer named Will Palmer. He was…

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The BEST Dating Advice for Men

Take it from an NYC Dating Coach: This Is How to Pick Up Girls without being a Creepy Pickup Artist The very best dating advice for men? It comes down to two words: I call it “Radical Authenticity.”   When you’re being radically authentic with people, you’re at your most confident, comfortable, charismatic—and that makes…

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WHAT IT REALLY TAKES TO DATE AMAZING WOMEN + TV interview!

As a dating coach who helps men attract amazing women by being more authentic, I love having stimulating conversations about dating success. I recently had a fantastic experience appearing on Good Morning LaLa Land, a fun, lively TV talk show in Los Angeles. The show is all about empowerment and living a better life. We…

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Dating At Any Age

How to Date at 40 (or even 50!) I just began working with a new client named James. Something amazing happened to him on a hotel-rooftop bar in Manhattan. He did something he thought was impossible. But in dating, as in life, sometimes you can surprise yourself. James came to me wanting to know how…

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What to Text a Girl

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Guys want to know how to get a date over text. It’s easier than you think.Here’s the right way to text a girl I’m psyched to share this: My Unified Theory of Texting. It’s all about what to text a girl in a way that leads to you getting more dates. I’ve coached hundreds of…

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Do THIS – and Transform your Dating Life

If you watched my FREE video series on the best way to approach, you now have everything you need to start great conversations with wonderful women. You know what’s even more powerful than video lessons? Live, one-on-one personal coaching. It’s transformative. So if you want to take your dating life to a whole new level,…

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