Attract AMAZING Women

Escape the Friend Zone
  • Be 100% Authentic  • Get Your Dream Girl

with Los Angeles Dating Coach Connell Barrett

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Dating in L.A. can be frustrating.

Do ANY of these problems sound like you?

  • Beautiful women put you in the friend zone
  • You want to approach ... but don't
  • Quality women seem out of your league
  • You struggle on Tinder and dating apps
  • You fear you're "not enough"
  • You settle for less... or for loneliness

I'm Los Angeles Dating Coach Connell Barrett

Chances are, you struggle in the area of women and dating. You see those girls you want to talk to, but anxiety holds you back. Or maybe you do meet attractive women, but they either reject you or banish you to the “friend zone.”

Hi, I'm Connell Barrett, an Expert Los Angeles Dating Coach, and I've been there. (Hell, I owned a condo there.) I used to have zero luck with women. My dates always ended with those four sad words: Let’s just be friends. It felt frustrating, even hopeless at times. I just wasn't "that guy" girls went for, or so I thought. And believing you're unattractive to women can make you feel like less of a man.

So I took action. I spent years training with the top dating experts to learn the art and psychology of male-female attraction. I traveled the world (New York, London, Stockholm, Barcelona) and cracked the code, and my results skyrocketed.

And now I want to help you have your breakthrough.

The secret? It's not about looks or pickup lines. It's about authenticity—letting women experience your best self.

New York's Best Dating Coach, Dating & Relationship Expert NYC - Connell Barrett
Los Angeles Singles

I want to help you have YOUR
Dating Transformation.

NYC Dating Coach - Dating Transformation's  dating coach will teach you how to meet & attract beautiful women, girl - Authenticity, Clarity, and Expressiveness

I created the A.C.E. Dating System to teach guys in days what took me years to learn.

It's simple: When you communicate with Authenticity, Clarity and Expressiveness, you channel your most confident self. And women love confident men. Take it from me—you already have what it takes to meet and attract amazing women.

The stakes are high. This is your love life. The cost of doing nothing (frustration, settling) is steep. The rewards for taking action are massive, from dating the girl of your dreams to becoming the man you were meant to be.

And it helps to have a guide. That's me: Obi-Wan to your Luke Skywalker. As a dating coach, I know from years of working with hundreds of men that lots of women would be into you—if they met the real you. I'll help you unleash your untapped dating potential. I'm very proud of my video series on approaching, but there's nothing as powerful as personalized coaching. It's transformative.

How does my dating coaching work?

Just 3 easy steps...

You heard that right—I help you attract the kinds of women you thought were out of your league.

Think of me as your ultimate wingman as you hit the town to attract cool, classy women at clubs, bars and lounges, and in parks, cafes and bookstores.

You’ll get everything you need to know about success with women—how to approach, how to flirt, how to get numbers, how to dial up chemistry, how to smoothly move in for the kiss (in a way she’ll love), how to plan a great date, and more.

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I’ll push your comfort zone and offer expert feedback for instant fixes that stick.

Plus you’ll access my personal vault of tip-of-the-spear techniques, drills and mindsets, including…

  • The secret to bullet-proof confidence
  • 10 Texting Commandments to guarantee she’ll always write back
  • 5 killer Tinder messages that never miss
  • 3 failsafe moves to turn Instagram into your personal date-generator
  • How to approach and literally never get rejected
  • Tips for structuring a perfect first date
  • The secret to shattering absolutely ANY limiting belief
  • How to move in for your first kissin a way she’ll love

I engineered my dating coaching to transform your life.

You will have breakthroughs. You will have epiphanies. You will experience the most personalized dating program in the world. (Trust me—I’ve taken all the others.)


Heads Up!

I like and respect women. I teach cutting-edge personal development, not sketchy “pickup” tricks.

My coaching is NOT for you if...

  • You see women as objects to be manipulated and “seduced”
  • You don't think you need to become a better man
  • You already have the dating life of your dreams
  • You don’t want to meet women of rare beauty
  • You’re unwilling to expand your comfort zone

But it's ABSOLUTELY for you if...

  • You want to feel more significant as a man
  • You want to approach and attract women anywhere
  • You want to feel free and more confident
  • You want to create instant chemistry with beautiful, unique women
  • You want to leave the “friend zone” for good
  • You want to be funnier, wittier and more charming
  • You want to be a man of action

Kyle's Story

"Connell took me from having no dates—to 3 dates in 3 days!"

Here's what more of my clients are saying...

  • Allen, 27 Allen, 27 Ann Arbor, MI
    At the bars, I would see all these attractive girls, but I couldn’t talk to them. I felt powerless. Stuck. Connell gave me a simple, step-by-step system. I now feel more present, real and vulnerable—not just with girls but at work and with my friends. I’m much more open and at ease, and people tell me I’m more likable. Connell made a big difference in my life. I feel like more of a man.
    Read Allen's full story
  • Zack, 33 Zack, 33 Brooklyn, NY
    Connell's program is about a lot more than dating beautiful women. It's about self-development--being more authentic, taking action, and blasting through limiting beliefs to achieve what you want. Our 2-hour session went deep. It was worth as much as a weeklong, $1,500 program I'd taken with another company.
    Read more client stories
  • Brad, 32 Brad, 32 Manhattan, NY
    I had taken a program with a popular dating company, and my results had gotten worse. When I reached out to Connell, I hadn’t had any luck in two months. I’d heard his coaching is very personalized, and it’s true. He gives guys a system designed just for them. I went out with Connell and damn - what a night! I hadn’t connected with a great girl in months, and my first night out with Connell, it all clicked. And within a week, I was dating three girls. Slump over!
    Read Brad's full story

One last thing...

If you’re anything like I was back when I struggled with women, you never tell yourself this, so allow me:

You. Are. Enough.

You’re enough to attract amazing women, to get a great girlfriend, and to start today. NOT tomorrow. NOW.

How many more beautiful women will you let walk by without approaching?

How much longer do you want to struggle for matches and dates on Tinder and dating apps?

How much longer do you want to settle for less or for loneliness?

Don’t put this off. This is important. This is your love life. This is about finding a deep, lasting connection with an amazing woman.

In fact, I’ll go farther:

The step-by-step roadmap I’ll teach you will attract the woman you end up spending your life with.

This is not only about dating success. It’s about becoming your most authentic, confident self—the man you were meant to be. So book a FREE call with me now, and we’ll talk soon.

Connell Barrett - Dating Coach NYC