Dating can be frustrating.

Do you struggle with ANY of these problems?

Women put you in the friend zone

You want to approach ... but don't

Beautiful women seem out of your league

Tinder and the dating apps just don't work

You feel lonely on weekends or on holidays

You fear you'll never find "the one"

Dating Coach Connell Barrett

Chances are, you struggle in the area of women and dating. You see those girls you want to talk to, but anxiety holds you back. Or maybe you do meet bright, beautiful women, but they either reject you or banish you to the “friend zone.”

Hi, I'm Connell Barrett, an Expert Dating Coach For Men, and I've been there. (Hell, I owned a condo there.) I used to have zero luck with women. My dates always ended with those four sad words: Let’s just be friends. It felt frustrating, even hopeless at times. I just wasn't "that guy" girls went for, or so I thought. And believing you're unattractive to women can make you feel like less of a man.

So I took action. I spent years training with the top dating experts to learn the art and psychology of male-female connection. I traveled the world (New York, London, Stockholm, Barcelona) and cracked the code, and my love life transformed.

And now I want to help you have your breakthrough.

The secret? It's not about looks or pickup lines. It's about authenticity—letting women connect with your best, most confident self.

Meet Dating Coach
Connell Barrett

I want to help you have YOUR
Dating Transformation.

I'M READY – LET'S CHAT

I created the A.C.E. Dating System to teach guys in days what took me years to learn.

It's simple: When you communicate with Authenticity, Clarity and Expressiveness, you channel your most confident self. And women love confident men. Take it from me—you already have what it takes to attract a wonderful girlfriend.

The stakes are high. This is your love life. The cost of doing nothing (loneliness, settling) is steep. The rewards for taking action are massive, from finding your soulmate to becoming the man you always wanted to be.

And it helps to have a guide. That's me: Obi-Wan to your Luke Skywalker.

As a NYC dating coach who's worked with hundreds of men all over the world, I know that lots of women would be into you—if they met the real you. I'll help you unleash your untapped dating potential.

How does my dating coaching work?

Just follow 3 simple steps...

You schedule your
FREE assessment

We discuss your goals and create a game plan that WORKS

You take action with my help, until you have a great girlfriend

That's right—I help you attract and TRULY connect with women you thought were out of your league.

Think of me as your ultimate wingman as you hit the town to charm cool, classy women at clubs, bars and lounges, and in parks, cafes and bookstores.

You’ll get everything you need to know about dating and connection—how to approach, how to flirt, how to get numbers, how to dial up chemistry, how to move in for the kiss (in a way she’ll love), and how to be 100% confident and authentic.

Watch me talk about love and dating on Access Hollywood LIVE:

I’ll push your comfort zone and offer expert feedback for instant fixes that stick.

Plus you’ll access my personal vault of simple, field-tested techniques, drills and mindsets, including…

The secret to bullet-proof confidence

10 Texting Commandments to get her flirting with you

5 charming Tinder openers that never miss

3 failsafe secrets to never again "run out of things to say"

How to approach and literally never get rejected

Tips for structuring a perfect first date

The secret to shattering absolutely ANY limiting belief

How to move in for your first kiss—in a way she’ll love

I engineered my dating coaching to transform your life.

You will have breakthroughs. You will have epiphanies. You will experience the most personalized dating program in the world. (Trust me—I’ve taken all the others.)

I'M READY – LET'S CHAT

Heads Up!

I like and respect women. I teach cutting-edge personal development for gentlemen, NOT sketchy “pickup” tricks.

My coaching is NOT for you if...

You see women as objects to be
manipulated and “seduced”

You don't think you need to become a
better man

You already have the girlfriend of your
dreams

You don’t want to meet intelligent,
wonderful women

You’re unwilling to expand your comfort
zone

But it's ABSOLUTELY for you if...

You want to be more attractive to women

You want to confidently approach beautiful women... and get dates

You want to get out of your head & always know what to say

You want the blueprint for romantic
connection

You want to leave the “friend zone” for good

You want more matches & dates on Tinder and the apps

You want a soulmate who loves you for YOU

Kyle's Story

"Connell took me from having no dates—to 3 dates in 3 days!"

Here's what more of my clients are saying...

Kevin, 47
Small Business Owner,
Nashville
I’d swiped and swiped and got nowhere. It was discouraging. It can feel personal. Connell showed me a step-by-step way to make my profile magnetic. It was amazing. That first day, I had 22 women write me, and I had three dates lined up. Wow! Online dating is finally fun.”
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Brad, 32
Manhattan, NY
I had taken a program with a popular company, and my dating life had gotten worse. When I reached out to Connell, I hadn’t had luck in months. His coaching is very personalized. He gives guys a system designed just for them. I went out with Connell and damn - what a night! I hadn’t connected with a great girl in months, and my first night out with Connell, it all clicked. Within a week, I was dating three girls. Slump over! And I now have a cool, cute, awesome girlfriend.
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Allen, 27
Ann Arbor, MI
At the bars, I would see incredible women I wanted to meet, but I couldn’t talk to them. I felt powerless. Stuck. Connell gave me a simple, step-by-step system. I now feel more present, real and vulnerable—not just with approaching girls but at work and with my friends. I’m much more open and at ease, and people tell me I’m more likable. Connell made a big difference in my life. I feel like more of a man.
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One last thing...

If you’re anything like I was back when I struggled with dating, you never tell
yourself this, so allow me:

You. Are. Enough.

You’re enough to attract wonderful women, to get a great girlfriend, and to start
today. NOT tomorrow. NOW.

How many more women will you let walk by without approaching?

How much longer do you want to fail to get matches and dates on Tinder and the apps?

How long will you settle for less or for loneliness?

Don’t put this off. This is important. This is your love life. This is about finding a deep, lasting connection with a truly wonderful woman, while growing into a better, more attractive man.

In fact, I’ll go farther:

With me as your guide, you will attract your soulmate—the incredible woman you'll share your life with.

This is not only about finding a wonderful girlfriend who loves you for you. It’s about becoming your most authentic, confident self—the man you were meant to be. So book a FREE call with me now, and we’ll talk soon.

NYC Dating Coach, Connell Barrett

Connell Barrett is a NYC dating coach who's helped thousands of men all over the world find their soulmates while dating with integrity and authenticity. Connell's been featured on the Today Show and in publications including Cosmopolitan, Playboy, and Oprah Magazine. Whether you're dating in New York or overseas, using a dating app or meeting in-person, Connell can help. Here's what some of his clients have said. Chat with Connell in a free consultation.

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