I’m Connell Barrett, founder and executive coach of Dating Transformation. My mission: To help you find your soulmate as your most authentic, confident self.
Chances are, you struggle in this area. You see women you want to talk to, but anxiety and self-doubt hold you back. Or maybe you do meet attractive women, but they either reject you or banish you to the “friend zone.”
I’ve been there. (Hell, I owned a condo there.) I used to have zero luck with women. My dates almost always ended with those four sad words: Let’s just be friends. I felt frustrated—at times even hopeless. Girls just weren’t into me, and that made me feel like less of a man.
My low point? I met that rare woman who wanted me, married her—and she left me nine weeks later. (I joked that we fought for custody of the wedding cake.) And no wonder: I was needy and lacked confidence.