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If you’re like most single men, you struggle with dating. You feel lonely at times, you lack confidence, and you’re not sure what to say to attract desirable women.

The Dating Transformation Podcast will help you gain confidence, flirt with charm, and attract your ideal girlfriend… all by being truly authentic and respecting women (No creepy “pickup” tricks needed!)

Every week, dating coach Connell Barrett and his special guest will help you overcome self-doubt so that you can awaken your most confident self, attract wonderful women, and find a great girlfriend… as the REAL you

The practical tips you’ll hear on the Dating Transformation Podcast will give you the step-by-step strategy you need to get more dates from the apps, learn to confidently approach women, and find the perfect partner … all while making dating FUN.

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You finally get a good match on a dating app with a cool, attractive woman you’d LOVE to meet. You craft the “perfect” opener, send it, and wait for her reply. And wait… and wait… and wait. Crickets, tumbleweeds, radio silence. Bottom line? You’re just not sure how to start a conversation on a dating app. You doing something wrong but you’re not sure what. It can make you feel like the apps will never work for you. Another dateless weekend approaches. Let’s change all of that!

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How to Start a Conversation on a Dating App: 23 Quick Tips!

You finally get a good match on a dating app with a cool, attractive woman you’d LOVE to meet. You craft the “perfect” opener, send it, and wait for her reply. And wait… and wait… and wait. Crickets, tumbleweeds, radio silence. Bottom line? You’re just not sure how to start a conversation on a dating app. You doing something wrong but you’re not sure what. It can make you feel like the apps will never work for you. Another dateless weekend approaches. Let’s change all of that! [...]

May 26, 2023

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First Date Tips for Guys: 27 Tips to Make Sparks Fly

You’d love to have fun, flirty first dates with women you’re attracted to… and have the dates go great, right? But maybe you lack confidence on first dates, you run out of things to say, and women either ghost you or say, “You seem nice, but I wasn’t feeling the connection.” So, you now have two choices: Get a nice inflatable woman, or (better yet!), listen to this podcast and have fun, flirty dates that help you attract your dream girlfriend! Tough choice, right? [...]

May 23, 2023

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How to Be More Confident with Women? Become Radically Authentic!

Learn how to be more confident with women with dating coach Connell Barrett. You want to confidently date wonderful women, flirt with charm, and find your dream girlfriend. Right? But self-doubt holds you back, you’re not sure how to talk to girls… and desirable women just don’t seem into you. Rejection. Loneliness. Low confidence. Dating can suck. But it doesn’t have to! [...]

May 19, 2023

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LIVE COACHING! How to Get Out of the Friend Zone on Dates and Make Sparks Fly

Learn how to get out of the friend zone with dating coach Connell Barrett. Connell live coaches his client, Chris, and gives you tips to ignite sparks with women. [...]

May 15, 2023

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How to Date Wonderful Women without Approaching or Using Apps

In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett welcomes Robbie Kramer, a dating expert who helps men meet women by using their social circle! [...]

May 12, 2023

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How to Be Flirty, Funny, and Never Run Out of Things to Say

In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett gives you his secret weapon to be flirty and funny, whether you’re texting a new match on the dating apps, or looking to charm your Saturday night date. [...]

May 9, 2023

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LIVE COACHING! How Connell’s client went from fearful to confidently approaching women…and getting dates!

You’re about to listen to an actual coaching session, in which (soulless ginger) dating coach Connell Barrett helps his client overcome his fear of approaching women. Xavier, 31, was struggling with “approach anxiety.” He couldn’t even say hello to attractive strangers, let alone flirt or ask women out. “I feel paralyzed with fear,” Xavier told Connell... [...]

May 5, 2023

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From nerdy to flirty! How to stop doubting yourself and attract your dream girlfriend (with Brian Pippard)

In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett talks to a fantastic fellow coach who can help you gain confidence and get dates, even if you’re “nerdy” or introverted. [...]

May 2, 2023

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How To Be a Confident Man

Chances are, you want to be a LOT more confident when talking to attractive women … but fear of rejection holds you back? In this episode, Connell turns to renowned coach Shana James, host of the Man Alive podcast. Shana will help you become a confident, “rejection-proof” man. Listen now, and learn how to be more vulnerable and attractive to women… as the REAL you. [...]

October 6, 2022

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How to Start a Conversation on a Dating App

Do you struggle on the apps, and you sometimes want to quit online-dating? This episode will help you fix that. Connell is joined by the innovative Helen Virt, of the Hily dating app—the hottest app around. Connell and Helen help you fix the 3 biggest dating mistakes you’re making online, so you stop getting ghosted and start getting dates. [...]

September 30, 2022

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Dating Coach Connell Barrett helps men connect with women by unlocking their most confident, authentic selves… NO creepy “pickup” tricks needed. He’s the author of the No. 1 Amazon bestseller, “Dating Sucks But You Don’t,” a step-by-step dating guide for men.

Connell has appeared on “Today” and “Good Morning America,” and in Best Life, Playboy and Cosmo. Named New York City’s “Best Dating Coach” by Datezie, Connell coaches for the Hily dating app and is an advisor to AskMen.

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