Tinder Success Secrets for More Matches, More Dates & More Confidence

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Online dating can be frustrating.

Do ANY of these problems sound like you?

  • You swipe and swipe on Tinder and other apps but struggle to get matches & dates
  • Women ghost you or don’t reply at all
  • You’re not sure what to text girls
  • You feel you lack the looks, height or money to attract your dream girl
  • You mostly hear from bots and fake accounts
  • Beautiful women just don’t seem into you
  • All you want is to share your life with a great girlfriend

Connell Barrett here, founder and executive coach of DatingTransformation.com. I’ve helped thousands of guys transform their online-dating results and attract amazing women.

In a couple minutes I’m gonna give you the fix for ALL of these issues.

But here’s the thing. When you struggle on Tinder, Bumble, Match, OKCupid or any other dating app, it can crush your confidence.

All those wasted swipes and wasted hours can make you feel like you’re not enough for attractive women—not tall enough or handsome enough or rich enough … not something enough.

Dating Coach - Connell Barrett

And if think you’re not enough, the deeper fear is that you’ll end up alone, or you’ll settle for someone you’re not that into.

Well, I think it’s JUST PLAIN WRONG for a good guy to struggle with online dating. Life’s too short to NOT have a great girlfriend, to NOT have confidence, to NOT feel attractive. It shouldn’t be this way. You deserve a deep, romantic connection with a wonderful woman—someone who makes you feel cherished and valued as a man. And to settle for less … well, that’s tragic.

Hey, I get it. I used to have zero Tinder and online-dating results. I was endlessly swiping with no luck. My low point? I started messaging with the ONE GIRL who liked me, but we lived on opposite coasts. To surprise her, I flew 3,000 miles—New York to San Francisco—and showed up bearing red roses and Victoria’s Secret lingerie.

When she learned I’d traveled cross-country to see her, she ghosted me. And no wonder—I was needy and desperate.

In that moment, I felt rejected by ALL women.

But hitting rock bottom can be a good thing. I made a decision to become GREAT at online dating and attracting women. So I spent years studying with the world’s top experts. I learned every tip, trick and hack for what works on Tinder and other dating apps, and soon my results skyrocketed.

On Tinder alone I started matching with 200-plus women per week, most of them beautiful, high-quality women. I remember a 3-day weekend when I had seven dates with seven gorgeous girls—and six of them were into me!

I almost couldn’t believe this was my dating life.

After sowing some wild oats, I fell for a bright, beautiful woman. Playing the field is fun for a while, but there’s nothing like a connected, committed relationship.

So, I know you’re asking...

What works on Tinder and other apps?
How do you get matches, dates and a great girlfriend?

Tinder woman

It comes down to eight simple words:

Make your profile magnetic, and attract amazing women.

A boring profile is the enemy of online-dating results. You MUST stand out to capture women’s attention because they’re inundated with hundreds of digital come-ons every week.

You see, at its essence online dating is digital marketing, with YOU as the product. If your Tinder profile blends in with all the others—bathroom selfies, poor lighting, “long walks on the beach”—you become invisible to women, and they swipe left.

Let me repeat: Your problem is NOT your looks, height or money. Your problem is NOT that “dating apps just don’t work.”

Your REAL issue? A boring, forgettable profile.

As I tell my clients, “If women snooze, you lose.”

This is GREAT news because you’re off the hook. It’s not you, it’s your marketing. And it’s 100% fixable. The solution?

Make your profile magnetic, and attract amazing women.  

As someone who’s studied success with women for a decade, I can tell you that 90 percent of guys do online-dating WRONG. So when you fix the REAL problem, you get an edge on almost ALL THE OTHER GUYS.  

To give you that dating edge, I created a step-by-step system that makes you magnetic to women—even if you’re not tall, rich or great-looking. (I have an awesome dating life, and I look like a cross between Ron Howard and the Heat Miser.)

Let’s go deeper.

My step-by-step system uses 3 TINDER SECRETS for instant results.

Secret #1: Use a pattern interrupter to get more matches

Secret #1

Use a 'Pattern Interrupter' to get more matches

Your featured photo should be what I call a “pattern interrupter.” On Tinder and dating apps, women fall into a kind of swiping hypnosis, seeing the same sorts of photos over and over—shirtless selfies, backwards caps, fishing pics aplenty. These photos are mediocre, NOT magnetic, and they’re costing you dates with wonderful women.  

Instead, you must interrupt her pattern and capture her attention before she swipes left. I know dozens of ways to do this, but a great option is to feature a professional-quality portrait for your main photo—one that makes you the star of your profile. (No group shots. No shadowy selfies. No exceptions.)

As a test, I used a so-so selfie as my primary Tinder photo. The result? I swiped right 100 times and got 3 measly matches. Why? It’s a forgettable photo, with my face in shadow—and women are deluged with selfies.

Then I replaced it with a quality portrait taken by my staff photographer Juliet, an expert at profile photos. I’m no pretty boy, but this shot shows me at my most magnetic: nicely-lit, well-dressed and smiling, my head angled to accentuate my jawline.

After 100 right-swipes with this featured pic, I received not one, not 10, but 27 matches, and 19 of them were from super-cute girls! One small change took me from 3 to 27 matches—an 800% increase. Like I said…

Make your profile magnetic, and attract amazing women.

Secret #2: Hack the algorithm to find the most beautiful women

Secret #2

Hack the algorithm to find the most beautiful women

Hacking Tinder’s algorithm is like cracking the combination at Fort Knox—it pays off BIG. Tinder assigns every profile a secret score based on many factors, such as engagement level and number of matches. A boring, poor-performing profile lowers your score, and the algorithm stops showing you to the true stunners.

This is a BIG REASON why you’re not matching with more high-quality women. They’re not even seeing you! (And for those who do see you—well, that bathroom-mirror selfie isn’t helping.)

But when your profile is magnetic, your Tinder rating skyrockets, the algorithm shows you to the most sought-after women—and you get matches with the 9s and 10s.  

Secret #3: Strengthen your weakest link

Secret #3

Strengthen your weakest link

Here’s something no one told you: Your online-dating results are only as good as the weakest link in your “chain.”

Yes, a magnetic featured photo is vital, and so is hacking the algorithm. But other key elements MUST be handled or you’ll never date the kinds of women you want.


  • The right combo of quality photos, or else most women will still swipe left
  • A profile that conveys your personality, or else, well, “If women snooze, you lose”
  • Openers that capture girls’ attention, or else they won’t write back
  • A strategy for how and when to ask women out, or else you won’t get dates
  • The secret to flirting and connecting on the first date, or else it’s “Hello, friend zone”

The good news? Once you strengthen all the links in the chain, you can leave your profile alone, because you’re set. Women chase YOU. Your life looks like this: grab your phone, choose the coolest, cutest girl from dozens of new quality matches, and have a great date. That simple.

"I now have this cool, cute girlfriend"

I applied Connell’s system to Tinder, OKCupid and Bumble, and it worked across the board. I had almost TOO many girls messaging me. [Laughs.]

I didn’t have time to meet them all. I now have a cool, cute, Swedish girlfriend. Mind-blowing.”

- Brad, 32

Project supervisor, New York City

"I feel like a new man"

I wasn’t getting matches and was clueless why. I thought it was my height—I’m 5’7’’. Turns out, the problem was with my profile and my texting, not with me. We made some simple fixes, and I matched with 17 girls in one day and had two dates that weekend. And Connell showed me how to stay out of the friend zone on first dates. I feel like a new man.”

- Will, 34

P.R. specialist, Los Angeles

So if you’re tired of struggling to get matches and dates…

If you’re sick of girls ghosting or flaking…

If you want to date amazing women and get a great girlfriend…

Then you can spend a day with me and change your life.

I’m conducting a LIVE 1-day event on Saturday, March 9th, 2019 in New York City:

Tinder & Online Dating MASTERY

You’ll walk out the door with a STEP-BY-STEP ROADMAP to attract amazing women on Tinder, Bumble, Match, or any app. You’ll learn a structured framework that will end your dating frustration and get you the kind of girlfriend who makes your buddies jealous.

TINDER & ONLINE DATING MASTERY is about results: more matches, more dates, more confidence—and NO MORE FRIEND ZONE or feeling like you’re not enough. I’ll open my vault of secrets, teaching you every tip, trick and hack I’ve learned in my decade spent mastering success with women.

Here's what you'll get at this 1-day event:

  • A total makeover of your Tinder profile to get you at least 10 matches per day, every day
  • A field-tested system to get you up to 3 dates per week with beautiful women
  • My devious Tinder-algorithm hacks that attract perfect 10s
  • No less than 47 copy-and-paste openers that make girls want to write you back
  • The “7 Super Secrets” for results on ALL the apps—Tinder, Bumble, OKCupid and more
  • The caption to write on your photo that doubles your matches
  • A 5-minute mindset exercise to build towering confidence
  • My “10 Texting Commandments” to get girls out on dates
  • A step-by-step roadmap to make her your girlfriend

PLUS, at TINDER & ONLINE DATING MASTERY, you’ll receive 3 valuable bonuses:

Bonus #1: A First-Date Escalation System to End the Friend Zone

Bonus #1

A First-Date Escalation System to End the Friend Zone

$3,850 VALUE!

During the 1-day live event, you’ll learn…

  • How to increase chemistry and sexual tension on dates
  • The easy way to get that first kiss, with ZERO fear or anxiety
  • The 5 first-date sins you don’t know you’re committing—and how to fix them
  • A simple technique to NEVER run out of things to say
  • How to stop hearing “Let’s be friends” and start hearing “Let’s go to your place”
Bonus #2: Profile Photos that Get Matches & Dates

Bonus #2

Profile Photos that Get Matches & Dates

$500 VALUE!

During the 1-day event you’ll get your own photo shoot with my personal photographer Juliet, who’ll snap portraits that make you look magnetic—and that will get you matches

Bonus 3: 30 Days of Personalized Coaching

Bonus #3

30 Days of Personalized Coaching

$1,200 VALUE!

For a final bonus to my 1-day event, you'll get to join my private Tinder Mastery Facebook Group, RUN BY ME. There, for 30 days following the event, I’ll coach you and offer personalized, 1-1 feedback. I’ll be your guide for a full month; Obi-Wan to your Luke Skywalker, making you an online-dating Jedi.


New York City is the BEST PLACE IN AMERICA for online-dating. Not only is the metro area home to 11 million women. But the ratio of single women to single men is 61-39—and in most of Manhattan the girl-guy ratio is about 2 to 1.

Do me a favor: Add up the following and put a dollar figure on it. How much is it worth to you to go from where you are to where I can take you? To go from…

  • Swiping on Tinder without success… to matching with 10 cute girls per day
  • Zero dates with ATTRACTIVE women… to 2-4 dates per week
  • Virtually no replies… to girls blowing up your phone with flirty messages
  • Not knowing what to text… to always having the PERFECT line
  • Settling for what you can get… to dating YOUR perfect 10s
  • Doubting your attractiveness… to feeling TOWERING CONFIDENCE
  • Being stuck in the friend zone… to making sparks fly on first dates
  • Feeling like you have no options… to dating multiple women and CHOOSING your next girlfriend
  • And doing ALL of this as a gentleman, with ZERO creepy “pickup artist” tricks

ADD ALL OF THAT UP, along with $5,550 in bonuses. How much is this ALL worth?

Maybe $10,000? Or $25,000? Perhaps… priceless?

I personally spent more than $100,000 for MY dream dating life—and it was worth every penny. Because nothing makes you feel like a CONFIDENT, COMPLETE MAN like having a gorgeous woman on your arm.

But attending my TINDER & ONLINE DATING MASTERY event WON’T cost you $100,000 or $25,000 or $10,000. It won’t even run you a grand.

You can achieve ALL of this for just $497.

That’s right—$497. For the price of a new muffler or a second-hand guitar, you can solve every dating problem you have and attract amazing women.

Does that sound like a deal? If so, here’s what to do next. Just follow these 3 steps:

1: Register for my live New York City event: TINDER & ONLINE DATING MASTERY

2: Spend a life-changing day with me in the Big Apple on March 9th, 2019

3: Enjoy your new love life: more matches, more dates, more confidence—and your dream girl

Now, you may be thinking, “Connell, this sounds amazing, but online dating has never worked for me.”

That’s what my client Kevin said. A 47-year-old small-business owner, Kevin was having ZERO success on dating apps. Well, we took some magnetic photos of him, and I showed him my algorithm hacks. Within a day he’d matched 22 times, and one night later he was clinking wine glasses with a tall, leggy brunette—his first of many dates with beautiful women.

"Online dating is now fun"

I’d swiped and swiped and got nowhere. It was discouraging. It can feel personal. Connell showed me a step-by-step way to make my profile magnetic. It was amazing. That first day, I had 22 women write me, and most were very attractive. Online dating is finally fun.”

- Kevin, 47

Small business owner, Nashville

Transforming a regular guy’s online-dating results is a day at the office for me.

One last thing: If you’re anything like I was back when I struggled with women, you never tell yourself this, so allow me:

You. Are. Enough.

You’re enough to attract amazing women, to get a great girlfriend, and to start today. NOT tomorrow. NOW.  

Remember, the REAL enemy is not your looks, height or money. It’s a boring profile. So make it magnetic and attract amazing women.  

How many more matches and dates will you miss out on? How many more beautiful women will swipe-left on your profile and date OTHER guys, while you’re home alone on weekend nights?

How many more times are you gonna be without a girlfriend at Christmas, on New Year’s Eve, on Valentine’s Day?

It’s a NEW YEAR, so decide to have a NEW DATING LIFE. Don’t put this off. This is important. This is your love life. This is about finding a deep, lasting connection with an amazing woman.

In fact, I’ll go farther:

The skills you’ll learn at this event will attract the woman you end up spending your life with.

This day will change everything. I hope to see you in New York City on Saturday, March 9th, 2019. So let’s take action together. Register now.

Connell Barrett

P.S. Oh hey, there are now LESS THAN 100 SEATS REMAINING, and this is the only New York event I’m doing this year.

P.P.S. This is not JUST about getting matches and dates. It’s about becoming who you were meant to be. So register now and join me. Talk soon!


What’s the day and time of the live program?

Noon on Saturday, March 9th in New York City. Registration starts at 9am. The event concludes at about 8pm, but it may run long.

What’s the venue?

The location will be at a hotel in Midtown Manhattan. Attendees will be notified of the location weeks before the event.

Should I book a hotel?

Only if you’re flying in. If you live in or near the New York area, Connell will end the event with plenty of time for you to get home in time.

Can I bring a friend or a guest?

Because of our VERY limited seating, every person must purchase a ticket to get into the event. 

Can I record the event with my smartphone?

Video recording of any kind is NOT allowed, but you’re welcome to record audio and to take as many photos as you like.

What should I wear?

The dress code is business casual. And remember—all guests will have a Tinder-profile-friendly portrait taken by a professional photographer, so dress accordingly.

Other questions?

Drop us a line at Connell@DatingTransformation.com and we’ll reply faster than you can say “Attract amazing women.”