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"Dating Sucks But You Don’t"
Dating coach Connell Barrett gives exclusive tips on his book, Dating Sucks But You Don't. In addition, he answers your questions on the right way to approach, how to defeat self-doubt, and online-dating openers that work. Dating Sucks But You Don't So psyched! I’ve just launched my new book, DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T: The Modern Guy’s Guide to Total Confidence, Romantic Connection, and Finding…
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Escape The Friend Zone
Dating coach Connell Barrett answers your questions on how to escape the friend zone on first dates, becoming more charismatic, and dating tips for a post-pandemic world. Escape The Friend Zone Do I have to go for the kiss on first date? I feel stuck. On one hand, I know I need to make a move or else I’ll have to escape the friend…
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14 Deep Questions To Ask a Girl
Dating coach Connell Barrett provides deep questions to ask a girl, the secret to motivation, and the easy way to flirt with charm. Deep Questions To Ask a Girl I know I need to keep things light when getting to know a woman, but I also love having deeper, stimulating conversations. Is it OK to “go deep” and talk about real stuff? What are…
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Flirty Questions To Ask a Girl
Dating coach Connell Barrett on flirty questions to ask a girl, why rejection is no biggie, and how to get a second date. Flirty Questions To Ask a Girl It keeps happening. I always hear, “You’re great, but… I’m just not feeling it.” My first dates seem to go well, but it rarely leads to a second date. I think I need to be…
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What To Say When Asking A Girl Out
Dating coach Connell Barrett answers your questions on what to say when asking a girl out, 7 style secrets, and the power of being “Radically Authentic." What To Say When Asking A Girl Out Connell, I’m pretty smooth when texting women, but when it comes to what to say when asking a girl out, I always get stuck in my head. Can you give…
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Where to Go on a First Date
Dating coach Connell Barrett answers your questions on where to go on a first date, why “alpha males” aren’t a thing, and the dating-app opener that never fails. Where to Go on a First Date Now that the pandemic is ending—I hope!—do you have any tips on where to go on a first date? My go-to date is dinner, but that gets expensive. —Devlin,…
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How To Make a Girl Laugh Over Text
Connell Barrett answers your questions on how to make a girl laugh over text, the secret to better first dates, and the way to turn her into your girlfriend. How To Make a Girl Laugh Over Text My texting game is the worst. I’m just not funny. I want to know how to make a girl laugh over text. Can you help? —Lawrence, 39,…
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How To Get More Swipes on Tinder
Dating coach Connell Barrett gives advice on how to get more swipes on Tinder, the secret to approaching with confidence, and the way to make yourself rejection-proof. How To Get More Swipes on Tinder I’m struggling on Tinder. It’s weird because I got a lot of matches when I first launched my profile, and then they dried up. I upgraded with some better photos—just…
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The Secret to Finding the Right Woman
Dating coach Connell Barrett answers your questions on the secret to finding the right woman, how shorter guys can connect with women, and an easy way to feel more masculine. The Secret to Finding the Right Woman Your tips on dating with courage, action and authenticity has changed my life! In fact, I’ve gone from settling for so-so women, to dating “Amanda.” She’s amazing—smart,…
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After a Second Date, Now What?
Dating coach Connell Barrett answers your questions on third-date strategies, unlocking true confidence, and how to approach in a NON-creepy way.   After A Second Date, Now What? I’m good on first dates, but then I’m not sure how to play the second or third date. I seem to lose a woman’s interest right before we start dating exclusively. It’s a problem because I’m…
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