First-date tips from an NYC Dating Coach

Some dating advice to help make sparks fly on your first meeting   Take it from a dating coach who’s been teaching for years: You have to get good at first dates.   Before I became a dating coach in NYC, I was trained by some wise mentors. I remember the dating advice that one…

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Connell Barrett Discusses Confidence and Authenticity with

I’m psyched to share this. has done a feature story on me and how I help guys date amazing women by being more authentic.     Here’s the link:   The feature talks about my main message: any guy can attract amazing women by harnessing the power of his authenticity—no games and…

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As a dating coach who helps men attract amazing women by being more authentic, I love having stimulating conversations about dating success. I recently had a fantastic experience appearing on Good Morning LaLa Land, a fun, lively TV talk show in Los Angeles. The show is all about empowerment and living a better life. We…

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Dating At Any Age

How to Date at 40 (or even 50!) I just began working with a new client named James. Something amazing happened to him on a hotel-rooftop bar in Manhattan. He did something he thought was impossible. But in dating, as in life, sometimes you can surprise yourself. James came to me wanting to know how…

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What to Text a Girl

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Guys want to know how to get a date over text. It’s easier than you think.Here’s the right way to text a girl I’m psyched to share this: My Unified Theory of Texting. It’s all about what to text a girl in a way that leads to you getting more dates. I’ve coached hundreds of…

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How to Pick Up Girls by Being Authentic, and NOT some Creepy “Pick-up Guy”

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Even if You’re Introverted and Have Never Approached Women Before I hear it all time from guys who want to learn how to pick up girls. They say, “Connell, I want to know how to approach women. I want to pick up girls. But I feel anxiety, and I don’t want to be that creepy…

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15 Ways to Attract Amazing Women as the REAL You—No Sketchy “Pickup” Moves Needed

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Success with women is not about looks, money or “pickup” tricks. Here’s the secret, in eight simple words. Ready? Be your most authentic self—and take action. To elaborate, let me tell you about Ken. When I met him, Ken was 25 and still a virgin. He’d never even kissed a girl. The thing is, he…

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Do THIS – and Transform your Dating Life

If you watched my FREE video series on the best way to approach, you now have everything you need to start great conversations with wonderful women. You know what’s even more powerful than video lessons? Live, one-on-one personal coaching. It’s transformative. So if you want to take your dating life to a whole new level,…

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Approach Women with Unstoppable Confidence

Pop quiz! What’s the secret to meeting and attracting amazing women, as your most authentic, confident self? Answer: a good approach. If you watched my three free videos, you can now break the ice with beautiful women anywhere. If you haven’t watched it, I forgive you (this time.) But do check it out ASAP. Today…

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