Take it from an NYC Dating Coach: This Is How to Pick Up Girls without being a Creepy Pickup Artist The very best dating advice for men? It comes down to two words: I call it “Radical Authenticity.” When you’re being radically authentic with people, you’re at your most confident, comfortable, charismatic—and that makes you magnetic to a lot of women. I love being…

Some dating advice and first date tips for men to help make sparks fly Take it from a dating coach who’s been teaching for years: You have to get good at first dates. Before I became a dating coach in NYC, I was trained by some wise mentors. I remember the dating advice that one gave me: “Your dating success will only be as…

I’m psyched to share this. DatingAdvice.com has done a feature story on me and how I help guys date amazing women by being more authentic. Here’s the link: https://www.datingadvice.com/for-men/connell-barrett-teaches-men-confidence-and-authenticity The feature talks about my main message: any guy can attract amazing women by harnessing the power of his authenticity—no games and no manipulative “pickup” tricks. It’s dating with total integrity. And there's no…

As a dating coach who helps men attract amazing women by being more authentic, I love having stimulating conversations about dating success. I recently had a fantastic experience appearing on Good Morning LaLa Land, a fun, lively TV talk show in Los Angeles. The show is all about empowerment and living a better life. We discussed how men can attract cool, classy women and…

How to Date At 40 (or even 50!) Dating in your 40's as a man might be easier than you thought. I just began working with a new client named James. Something amazing happened to him on a hotel-rooftop bar in Manhattan. He did something he thought was impossible. But in dating, as in life, sometimes you can surprise yourself. James came to me…

Guys want to know how to get a date over text. It’s easier than you think. Here’s the right way to text a girl. I’m psyched to share this: My Unified Theory of Texting. It’s all about what to text a girl in a way that leads to you getting more dates. I’ve coached hundreds of guys, so take it from a coach: Being…

Even if You’re Introverted and Have Never Approached Women Before, Here's How to "Pick Up Girls" Authentically I hear it all time from guys who want to learn how to pick up girls. They say, “Connell, I want to know how to approach women. I want to pick up girls. But I feel anxiety, and I don’t want to be that creepy “pick-up guy.”…

Success with women is not about looks, money or “pickup” tricks. Are you wondering how to attract a woman instantly? And not just any woman, an amazing woman? Here’s the secret, in eight simple words. Ready? Be your most authentic self—and take action. To elaborate, let me tell you about Ken. When I met him, Ken was 25 and still a virgin. He’d never…

If you watched my FREE video series on the best way to approach, you now have everything you need to start great conversations with wonderful women. You know what’s even more powerful than video lessons? Live, one-on-one personal coaching. It’s transformative. So if you want to take your dating life to a whole new level, and FAST, then let’s go meet girls—you and me,…