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From Dateless to Dating Coach: What I’ve Learned Working with Dozens of Dating Experts and Consultants
Just so you know, I’m not like other dating coaches and dating consultants.First of all, unlike most other “experts,” I personally faced—and fixed—every single common problem that men have in the dating arena. Feeling beautiful women are out of  your league? Check. Anxiety when you want to approach that gorgeous girl but something holds you back? Check. Stuck in the friend zone, dateless, running…
Dating After Divorce
Tips from a dating coach: How to be single after a long relationship and how to move on after divorce Here's some advice on dating after divorce. It’s been said that divorce is like construction: It always takes longer and costs more than you predicted. Add to that the sheer trauma of untying the knot. Take it from a dating coach who has been…
What To Say On Tinder
TINDER CONVERSATION STARTERS - WHAT TO SAY Take it from a dating coach: Here’s what to say on Tinder, and what not to say Tinder gets a bad rap. “It’s just for hooking up,” I hear. “You can’t find a real relationship on an app.” Hey, I totally get it. To be sure, Tinder has facilitated more one-night stands than Cuervo Gold. And as…
Professional Dating Coach Q&A, Part 2
From “how to pick up girls” to how to be a “bad boy,” here’s part 2 of a conversation with professional dating coach Connell Barrett on attracting amazing women by being authentic Here’s part 2 of an interview I did with a British writer named Will Palmer. As an NYC dating coach, I have a lot of competition in the Big Apple. But I…
Professional Dating Coach Q & A, Part 1
A professional dating coach does a Q&A with expert answers and advice. From “how to pick up girls” to escaping the friend zone, here's a conversation with a professional dating coach from NYC, Connell Barrett, on how to attract amazing women—by being authentic Here’s part 1 of an interview I did with a British writer named Will Palmer. He was interested in me being…
Dating Advice for Men: How To Pick Up Girls Without Being Creepy
Take it from an NYC Dating Coach: This Is How to Pick Up Girls without being a Creepy Pickup Artist The very best dating advice for men? It comes down to two words: I call it “Radical Authenticity.” When you’re being radically authentic with people, you’re at your most confident, comfortable, charismatic—and that makes you magnetic to a lot of women. I love being…
First Date Tips for Men from an NYC Dating Coach
Some dating advice and first date tips for men to help make sparks fly Take it from a dating coach who’s been teaching for years: You have to get good at first dates. Before I became a dating coach in NYC, I was trained by some wise mentors. I remember the dating advice that one gave me: “Your dating success will only be as…
Dating Advice: Connell Barrett Discusses Confidence and Authenticity with
I’m psyched to share this. has done a feature story on me and how I help guys date amazing women by being more authentic.   Here’s the link: The feature talks about my main message: any guy can attract amazing women by harnessing the power of his authenticity—no games and no manipulative “pickup” tricks. It’s dating with total integrity. And there's no…
As a dating coach who helps men attract amazing women by being more authentic, I love having stimulating conversations about dating success. I recently had a fantastic experience appearing on Good Morning LaLa Land, a fun, lively TV talk show in Los Angeles. The show is all about empowerment and living a better life. We discussed how men can attract cool, classy women and…
Dating in Your 40's As A Man: Dating Tips From A Dating Coach
How to Date At 40 (or even 50!) Dating in your 40's as a man might be easier than you thought. I just began working with a new client named James. Something amazing happened to him on a hotel-rooftop bar in Manhattan. He did something he thought was impossible. But in dating, as in life, sometimes you can surprise yourself. James came to me…
Connell Barrett Dating coach for men

I'm dating coach Connell Barrett. I help men build confidence and connect with women by being authentic!


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