My clients often ask me “Why Am I So Afraid to Approach Women?” Here's a Q&A on how to show confidence to a woman and earn a date with her. Blame your caveman brain. Here’s how to show confidence to a woman, or as I like to say, become fearless when you want to meet or continue dating a gorgeous girl. “Connell, I have…

What a dating expert can do for a man’s confidence and results Hey, happy New Year! Connell here with Dating Transformation, helping you attract amazing women as your most authentic, confident self. As a New York dating coach with five years of experience helping men all over the U.S., I’ve seen a lot of patterns. I get a lot of the same questions over…

Here are 3 secrets for online dating success, from a dating expert If you’re like a lot of guys, Tinder and online dating is a struggle for you. Do ANY of these problems sound familiar? You swipe and swipe but get few matches & dates. You’re not sure what to say on Tinder. Women ghost you or don’t reply at all. You’re not sure…

What to Say on Tinder: Myths Exposed 7 Tinder Myths from a dating coach to get more matches I hear a lot of the same comments and questions over and over again. How do you text a girl? What’s the best way to approach? Tell me what to say on Tinder! Got any good Tinder tips? As a dating coach, I hear the last…

Just so you know, I’m not like other dating coaches and dating consultants.First of all, unlike most other “experts,” I personally faced—and fixed—every single common problem that men have in the dating arena. Feeling beautiful women are out of  your league? Check. Anxiety when you want to approach that gorgeous girl but something holds you back? Check. Stuck in the friend zone, dateless, running…

Tips from a dating coach: How to be single after a long relationship and how to move on after divorce Here's some advice on dating after divorce. It’s been said that divorce is like construction: It always takes longer and costs more than you predicted. Add to that the sheer trauma of untying the knot. Take it from a dating coach who has been…

TINDER CONVERSATION STARTERS - WHAT TO SAY Take it from a dating coach: Here’s what to say on Tinder, and what not to say Tinder gets a bad rap. “It’s just for hooking up,” I hear. “You can’t find a real relationship on an app.” Hey, I totally get it. To be sure, Tinder has facilitated more one-night stands than Cuervo Gold. And as…

From “how to pick up girls” to how to be a “bad boy,” here’s part 2 of a conversation with professional dating coach Connell Barrett on attracting amazing women by being authentic Here’s part 2 of an interview I did with a British writer named Will Palmer. As an NYC dating coach, I have a lot of competition in the Big Apple. But I…

A professional dating coach does a Q&A with expert answers and advice. From “how to pick up girls” to escaping the friend zone, here's a conversation with a professional dating coach from NYC, Connell Barrett, on how to attract amazing women—by being authentic Here’s part 1 of an interview I did with a British writer named Will Palmer. He was interested in me being…

Take it from an NYC Dating Coach: This Is How to Pick Up Girls without being a Creepy Pickup Artist The very best dating advice for men? It comes down to two words: I call it “Radical Authenticity.” When you’re being radically authentic with people, you’re at your most confident, comfortable, charismatic—and that makes you magnetic to a lot of women. I love being…