Connell Barrett answers your questions on igniting romantic chemistry, gaining confidence, and dating-app openers that women love. Learn how to get out of the friend zone. HOW TO GET OUT OF THE FRIEND ZONE Most of my first dates end with me basically hearing, “You seem nice, but I just didn’t feel the chemistry.” Any tips on how to get out of the friend…
When it comes to dating books for men, it's important to be selective. Dating is much more than cheesy pickup lines or picking the perfect date spot. It's about confidence in yourself and connection with the other person. It's also about improving yourself. The more you better yourself, the more attractive and desirable you'll be to women. Believe it or not, guys who do…
If you're expecting an article on how to get a girl with pickup lines, you've come to the wrong place, my friend. Take it from me, a professional NYC dating coach, there's a better way. The best way to get a girl is to be genuine. That probably sounds pretty opposite to the advice you're used to hearing from your friends, am I right?…
TAKE IT FROM AN ONLINE DATING COACH—ONLINE DATING ISN’T REALLY “DATING.” IT’S DIGITAL MARKETING. For matches and dates on Tinder, Bumble and other apps, you need to get good at digital marketing. Until you walk into that bar to meet, you’re not really “dating” women. You’re marketing to them. There are more men on dating apps than women Take it from someone who’s been…
Need a guide to dating during a pandemic? Here are 9 tips to keep your dating life looking up as you hunker down. Dating can be hard in the best of times but, right now as much of America shelters (and shudders) in place, you’re probably more uncertain than ever about finding an amazing woman. Here’s a silver lining: There have never been more…
Pop quiz! What’s the secret to meeting and attracting amazing women, as your most authentic, confident self? Answer: a good approach. Here's how to approach women with unstoppable confidence from me, Connell Barrett, a dating coach for guys. Why should you listen to me? I used to have trouble approaching women and spent years with many mentors to unlock the secrets. Since then, I've…
My clients often ask me “Why Am I So Afraid to Approach Women?” Here's a Q&A on how to show confidence to a woman and earn a date with her. Blame your caveman brain. Here’s how to show confidence to a woman, or as I like to say, become fearless when you want to meet or continue dating a gorgeous girl. “Connell, I have…
What a dating expert can do for a man’s confidence and results Hey, happy New Year! Connell here with Dating Transformation, helping you attract amazing women as your most authentic, confident self. As a New York dating coach with five years of experience helping men all over the U.S., I’ve seen a lot of patterns. I get a lot of the same questions over…
Here are 3 secrets for online dating success, from a dating expert If you’re like a lot of guys, Tinder and online dating is a struggle for you. Do ANY of these problems sound familiar? You swipe and swipe but get few matches & dates. You’re not sure what to say on Tinder. Women ghost you or don’t reply at all. You’re not sure…
What to Say on Tinder: Myths Exposed 7 Tinder Myths from a dating coach to get more matches I hear a lot of the same comments and questions over and over again. How do you text a girl? What’s the best way to approach? Tell me what to say on Tinder! Got any good Tinder tips? As a dating coach, I hear the last…
