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Online Dating Tips for Men: 7 Deadly Tinder Sins NOT to Commit
Dating coach Connell Barrett talks online dating tips for men, smashing out of the friend zone, and whether Tinder Gold is worth it.   Online Dating Tips For Men DATING APP SINS I swipe and swipe and get no good matches on Tinder, except for women I’m just not attracted to. I’ve read a lot of online dating tips for men, and I’d like…
Virtual Date Ideas That Spark Chemistry
Dating coach Connell Barrett answers your questions on virtual date ideas, how to not get ghosted, and the secret to flirting. VIRTUAL DATE IDEAS I need some virtual-date ideas. Any thoughts?  —George, Port Chester, N.Y. “Virtual dating.” It sounds like something Harrison Ford did with a hologram in “Blade Runner.”  Here are three virtual-date ideas that can help you turn up the chemistry with…
The Art of Sending Opening Messages
Dating coach Connell Barrett answers your questions on writing opening messages, how to meet women at coffee shops, and secrets to better first dates. OPENING MESSAGES On dating apps I struggle to get women to reply to my opening messages. I usually go with, “How are you?” or “Great to connect.” Are those bad openers? Is it me? Help!  —Ian, 27, London Ian, when…
What To Do On A Second Date To Ignite Chemistry
Dating coach Connell Barrett answers your questions on what to do on a second date, the right way to approach, and 7 secrets to asking a girl out    WHAT TO DO ON A SECOND DATE I want a girlfriend, and I’m looking for tips on what to do on a second date. My first dates are good, but on the second date or…
First-Date Advice for Deeper Connections
Dating coach Connell Barrett dishes out first-date advice. He answers your questions on how to have great first dates, 3 smooth moves to get the first kiss, and the way to “keep things casual.”   FIRST-DATE ADVICE I need some first-date advice. What are the most important things to keep in mind? Because when I walk into a first date, I have no idea…
Tinder Tips For More Matches And Dates
Dating coach Connell Barrett answers your questions on Tinder tips for writing a great bio, shaking off rejection, and how to never be “creepy” when you approach   TINDER TIPS Connell, I need some Tinder tips. There are so many beautiful women on Tinder, but I barely get any matches. Any advice? —Louie, 27, Virginia Beach    When it comes to Tinder tips, there’s…
Friend Zoned No More! How to Spark Attraction on Dates
Dating coach Connell Barrett answers your questions on creating attraction instead of being friend zoned, getting more Tinder matches, and why looks don’t matter to women.   FRIEND ZONED Connell, I keep getting friend zoned. It’s frustrating because women seem to be into me before we meet, but I don’t get second dates. How do I keep from getting friend zoned?  —Craig, 37, Miami…
Dating Tips for Shy Guys
Dating coach Connell Barrett answers your questions on how introverted men can succeed with women, a smooth way to ask a girl out, and the secret to approaching with total confidence. Here are dating tips for shy guys.   Dating Tips for Shy Guys Connell, I’m a pretty introverted, and that’s always held me back with women. I don’t like going to bars, clubs,…
5 Flirty First-Date Questions that Increase Attraction
Dating coach Connell Barrett answers your questions on spicing up first dates, the secret to quality matches on Tinder, and how “ugly” guys can attract beautiful women. We'll start with 5 flirty first-date questions that'll take you from connecting to romancing. Flirty First Date Questions I have a lot of nerves and anxiety before a date because I’m not sure what to talk about.…
Social Distance Date Ideas
Dating coach Connell Barrett answers your questions on finding love during the pandemic, getting girls to reply to your texts, and how to make your approaches (almost) rejection-proof. Read about social distance date ideas and more in the article below. Social Distance Date Ideas Do you have any tips on social distance date ideas? And when I like a woman, when is it OK…
Connell Barrett Dating coach for men

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